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Community Guidelines

1. Registration Process

• You must read, acknowledge and agree to these guidelines.

• Once agreed, you will be taken to a registration page to insert your name and email address.

• Once registered, you will receive an email with the link to join the “start here” channel.

• Complete the Community Member form in that channel so we know your name and email so moderators can personally follow up on issues you or others may have.

• Once completed, you will receive an invitation to join the other channels within 72 hours.

• If at any point you change your username on Discord, you will need to re-submit a member form.

2. Embrace Respect, Kindness, and Compassion

• Engage with others in a spirit of kindness and respect. This community is built for those who have been wounded or worn out by traditional faith spaces, so let’s support each other with grace and understanding.

• Any form of harassment, bullying, hate speech, or discrimination based on race, gender identity or expression, sexuality, religion, disability, or any other personal characteristic is not acceptable here.

3. Cultivate a Safe and Inclusive Space

• We are committed to being a sanctuary for all. Create and maintain a welcoming environment where everyone feels valued and safe to express themselves.

• Respect others' boundaries and be mindful of potential triggers. If you are unsure about the impact of your words, choose to be cautious.

• Participation in this community is voluntary. If discussions become overwhelming, it’s okay to step away and take care of your mental and emotional health.

4. Respect Privacy and Confidentiality

• Maintain the privacy of others by not sharing personal information without consent. This is a space for vulnerability and healing; protect that by keeping sensitive information confidential.

• While we strive for privacy, understand that complete confidentiality cannot be guaranteed due to the online nature of this space. Share personal details responsibly.

5. Maintain Appropriate Content and Conduct

• This community values a holistic, life-giving spirituality. Keep discussions and shared content safe for all members, avoiding NSFW (Not Safe For Work) materials or any content that may be considered harmful or illegal.

• Engage in conversations that honor the designated channels. Use specific spaces for particular topics, whether it’s for socializing, discussing spirituality, or sharing resources.

• Refrain from spamming, trolling, or engaging in disruptive behavior.

• NOTE: This server is not encrypted and may be subject to subpoena. Additionally if laws are violated – especially with regard to harm of self or others – within this online community, The Remembered Table will be required to report that to the appropriate authorities.

6. Supportive Engagement Over Prescriptive Approaches

• TRT believes in offering supportive spaces for exploration rather than dictating specific practices or beliefs. Feel free to seek advice and suggestions, but remember that your spiritual journey is unique to you.

• When determining how to approach sharing your beliefs or opinions in this space, please ensure it fits the community guidelines.

• Offer support and encouragement to others as they find their own paths, honoring diverse perspectives and experiences.

7. No Unsolicited Advertising or Self-Promotion

• Self-promotion, advertising, or solicitation is only permitted in designated channels or with prior approval from moderators.

• If you have an article, resource, project or event that aligns with our community values, seek moderator approval before sharing even in response to a query from the community.

8. Follow Moderator Guidance

• Moderators are here to ensure this space remains nurturing and safe. Follow their instructions and respect their decisions.

• If you have concerns about moderation or the behavior of other members, address these issues privately and respectfully with the moderators.

• Moderators are not equipped to support community members through crisis situations and thus they will be limited to sharing referral resources for mental health or crisis situations to members.

9. Mindful Engagement in Events

• Participate in events that resonate with you, whether it's a discussion on spirituality, social justice, or a creative activity. Engage thoughtfully and contribute positively.

• We may host fewer but more impactful events to deepen engagement and foster meaningful connections. Take advantage of these opportunities to connect with others.

10. Commit to Self-Care and Personal Responsibility

• Everyone comes with their own experiences and challenges. Practice self-care and step back when you need to. Your well-being is important.

• Be accountable for your actions and words, and commit to creating a community that reflects the values of kindness, inclusion, and safety.

11. Report Concerns and Issues

• If you witness behavior that violates these guidelines or makes you feel unsafe, please report it to a moderator. Reports are taken seriously and will be handled with care and confidentiality.

• We are committed to being a trauma-aware space. If harm occurs, we will take responsibility, make amends, and adjust our practices as needed.

Final Thoughts

This community is a place to recover, reconnect, and rebuild. We honor each person’s background, journey, and individuality. By adhering to these guidelines, you help us create a space where everyone can experience the “unforced rhythms of grace” and feel genuinely seen and supported. Thank you for being a part of The Remembered Table community.

Last updated 6/12/2025